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A Mother’s Biblical Example
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by P.J. Davis
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MY HUSBAND AND I realized in our mid-life marriage that the
chance of having a child was decreased due to my age. This was
further complicated by a progressively painful condition called
endometrosis that often results in infertility. My gynecologist
informed us it was not utterly impossible but extremely
improbable I would ever carry a child.
In time we adopted a newborn. The
circumstances surrounding our son’s adoption were
divinely orchestrated. We named him John because the name means
“God’s gift.” We felt blessed. Now our family
was complete, or so we thought.
I came to realize that God has His own
timetable for our lives when fifteen months after John’s
adoption I became pregnant at forty-eight.
We discovered with God all things are
possible. I immediately identified with Elizabeth, mother of
John the Baptist. The Bible says Elizabeth was
“well-advanced in years” when she was told they
would have a son (Luke 1:18). There has never been another time
when I felt closer to God and sensed His power as during our
son John’s first year and during my only pregnancy with
Joshua.
Elizabeth was a devout woman. She knew
her son was appointed to do a great work. I also pray for
wisdom as we raise John and Joshua. All parents wonder what
their children will be like as they mature. Much of what they
will become depends on how we teach them and whether we inspire
by good example. Most character traits are acquired through
contact with parents--what a weighty responsibility. In
December Joshua celebrated his eleventh birthday and John will
be thirteen. Our sons are receiving a Christ-centered world
view and know their lives have a purpose.
I’m meeting the challenges,
frustrations and triumphs of mothering while seeing them
through the wonder of childhood. I find support and direction
through reading God’s Word and other publications,
through my husband, Christian broadcasting and a mother’s
support group. When some days are rough and I feel the demands
of child rearing, I want to remember when God answered the
desires of our hearts in His own way. Becoming a mother at
midlife has been a rewarding experience and my faith in God has
deepened as a result.
In her book “Women of The
Bible” Frances Velde in a character sketch of Elizabeth
says, “The names of many prominent women glitter in
history, but none with more radiant luster than that of
believing Elizabeth. She attained the noblest virtues possible
to women. How wonderful to know that every Christian woman can
possess these same virtues by the grace of God.”
Elizabeth of old has been a spiritual inspiration for me.
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Published in Virtue magazine, April 2000
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This article copyright P J Davis 2005 and
may not be reproduced in any form without her express
permission.
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